Tween Lesson Plans
Jesus Christ is not the LEAST bit intimidated by 'tweens,
and you shouldn't be either!

How to Discuss Sex, Drugs,
and More "Tricky Topics"
with 9-12 Year Olds!

It's the trickiest age group in all of children's ministry: TWEENS

If you aren't familiar with the term, “tweens” are kids between the ages of 9-12.

While many adults live in fear of this age group, if you're a brave parent, Sunday School teacher, or pastor that works with (or lives with) ‘tweens:

You have a tremendous opportunity.

Psychologists say that if you want kids to know anything about morality, spirituality, ethics and character development, you generally have to catch them before the age of 12.

After that, and they pass into a phase sometimes known as "differentiation", where they acknowledge themselves as "separate" from other family members.

They realize they are capable of making value judgments and decisions for themselves and are very anxious to exercise these capabilities.

It’s not only fairly common but almost considered normal to find parents chasing 15-year-olds around the house, stammering out lectures on abstinence, don’t-let-us-catch-you-drinking, and the addictive ramifications of drugs.

Teens all but run for the nearest door they can close or respond with what appears to be outrage.

They’ve past their summit of absorbing adult wisdom.

‘Tweens, on the other hand, are in a different crucial passage.

They are old enough to understand hard-hitting subjects such as addictions, peer pressure, sexual behavior and other things that can drag them from their faith.

But unlike teenagers, they have not passed their high point of teachability.

Some parents feel that talking to their children about sex, drugs, alcohol, etc. will make their kids want to try these things.

Nothing could be farther from the truth; in fact, ignoring tough subjects like these can even be a silent endorsement.

However, I entirely sympathize with the stuttering, anxious and overworked parents of today’s pre-teens and the Sunday school teachers who are often asked to fill in.

How do you help Tweens navigate through the unique challenges they’ll come up against in this part of their lives?


But there’s good news. It starts with your willingness and ends with Jesus’ talents.

The job becomes easy when a simple truth falls into place:

Jesus Christ is not the least bit afraid or the least bit intimidated by this age group.

He sees straight through their gnarly exteriors.

He smiles at their mood swings, blinks at their fear-induced wise guy routines, and is fully prepared to help them tackle their challenges.

You need to think of yourself merely as an introducer to the real teacher.

If you’re all for open and honest communication with ‘Tweens, to prepare them for the tough issues they will face, we've developed a tool that will surely help your cause.

I'm proud to introduce our latest teaching resource:

Tween a Rock and a Hard Place

Inside, you'll find Bible-based lesson plans covering the 12 most hard hitting subjects that tweens will face in the coming years, including:

Lesson #1: Jesus is a Guy Not a Rule Book

Lesson #2: Listening to Jesus (& Ten Reasons We Can’t Hear Him Sometimes)

Lesson #3: God’s Voice or My Imagination? (Eight Ways to Tell)

Lesson #4: Good Conformity vs. Bad Conformity

Lesson #5: Peer Pressure

Lesson #6: Dress & Modesty

Lesson #7: Abstinence

Lesson #8: Drinking

Lesson #9: Drugs & Addictions

Lesson #10: Galloping Gossips

Lesson #11: Forgiveness

Lesson #12: Review Lesson

In order to deliver these “Queasy Topic” lessons,
it's crucial that kids ENJOY coming to church.

One of our first goals in developing this lesson plan series was to disassociate from school “teaching methods”.

We don’t encourage the use of blackboards, marker boards or even Power Point presentations, which ‘Tweens can associate with all work and no fun.

Our lessons feature hands-on activities & demonstrations that illustrate the important characteristics of God.

Lessons are broken down into three parts: Class Activities, Class Discussion, and Small Group Activities.

Placing Christ’s friendship at the center of the solutions makes all advice doable with His leading.

Here’s More of What You Can Look Forward to:

Bible Focused

The Bible is used in all sections, but especially in Discussion, where students are asked to look up as many as ten passages.

Using the Bible regularly helps reinforce the notion that it is still very relevant to their lives.


The lessons work in almost any Christian setting: regardless of class size, denomination, or preferred Bible translation.
Easy Prep

You won't have to go rushing out to the store looking for materials, everything is easily found around the house.
Teachers words in bold –

For each lesson we provide "Teacher Words" so you'll always know exactly what words to say to drive your message home.

I promise you'll have the confidence to confront even the most uncomfortable of subjects without any worry.

Start Reaching
the 'Tweens in Your Church!

Order now and you’ll pay just $9.99 for this complete set of 12 lessons.

Plus, the complete package is available as a downloadable "ebook" so that you can get all the content immediately with no printing, packing, shipping or handling expenses.

You can have everything in just minutes from now!

Use the content how you see fit. You can supplement your current lessons with these "hot potato lesson topics", or present all 12 lessons in a row, it’s up to you.

At our church, we present one of these lessons each month throughout the year as an optional evening “'Tween Workshop”. Parents sign their teens up for as few or as many workshops as they like.

The response has been tremendous. We've had to start a waiting list because our classroom simply cannot accommodate all the attendees!

Order Now & Receive the Following
Bonus Gift for FREE!

Printable "Fill-in-the-Blanks" Workshop Flyer

Use our printable 8.5 X 11 poster to publicize “'Tween Workshops” at your church! Print off as many copies as you need year after year! Simply fill in the blanks!

Tween Workshops


With My Unconditional 100% Money-Back Guarantee,
You Have Absolutely Nothing to Lose!

100% Money Back GuaranteeThe lessons are backed by a full 60-day money-back guarantee.

So go ahead and order. Try out the lessons for 60 days on your most cynical and moody tweens. If the tweens respond positively (which I think they will) … then keep on using them!

But, if for WHATEVER REASON, these lessons aren't a good fit for your group, just let us know and we will rush you a refund right away.

No questions asked. No hassles. No wiggle clauses.

You’ll either LOVE “'Tween a Rock & a Hard Place" or we'll cheerfully refund you every penny. (And you can keep the lessons for free as my personal gift to you for trying this offer).

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Mary-Kate Warner

P.S. Let's face it, the clock is ticking. Tweens turn into teenagers in the blink of on eye.

And then, the window of teachability and influence will have been lost.

Don't let fear turn you away from discussing the BIG ISSUES with Tweens. You can do this!

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